Just started a new job a couple of weeks ago and also today found out my wife's pregnant. When is an appropriate time to tell my new boss? Company policy asks for 3 months notice but it's a growing startup. What does everyone think is appropriate?

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It’s usually safe after the first trimester since the chances of a healthy birth increase dramatically. That’s 6 months notice so plenty of heads up.

On another note, unless your boss is a dick you’d be surprised how happy people will be for you.

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Appreciate that. I was just a little self conscious given I just joined

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You don’t have to tell your job until you want to/ give them enough heads up for your pat leave if there is any. A quarter seems ridiculous.

It is a conversation you should have w your wife

Well I have resigned. I have 3 months notice period(well!). After resigning I realized I “could” be pregnant or it is just the vaccine! First thought was should I take my resignation back since I would be joining next company only 3 months from now, how do I tell them I am already pregnant.

Then the next thought was that it doesn’t matter and it shouldn’t matter. You cannot plan everything in life. Join, give your best and see how everything goes. After all it is “just a job”.If you are good at what you do people will always want you in their team, if not there are plenty of jobs awaiting a skilled and hardworking resource.

So, it is just a job.

FMLA may not mick in if you haven't been at an employer fir a year, so you should inquire. If you're not in the US, disregard.

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