Does anyone have an issue with gambling?

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Bet you a dollar someone responds yes

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Same with me but AA has not only worked to help me not drink but also not gamble. I haven’t placed a bet or had a drink since 2013 but sometimes my investing behavior feels like a relapse. Definitely obsessing over investing for sure for a few years but I do know the steps will help me with anything from experience.

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It’s been 3 months OP are we doing better or off the cliff?

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I used too. Still relapse here and there but it used to be way worse

If you do a search of the bowl you’ll find some older posts about gambling addiction.

Got into GA about 7 months ago and 7 months sober. The steps and the rooms have helped tremendously.

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