Good morning Fishies!! Question of the day. What’s an experience you’ve had dealing with micro-aggressions? How did you deal with it? Do you feel like you reclaimed your power and confidence?

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Currently in this situation. Have some team members that have formed a bit of a clique.
Thankfully, my performance and attitude speaks for itself.
They’re not aware that I’m in line to succeed their boss in the next few years, wondering how that will play out for them.

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Looks like you have a solid company. I’ve practiced many of the things you’ve mentioned and without leadership having my back it can turn ugly despite best efforts. Thank you for sharing. Very encouraging.

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What are examples of microagressions or bullying you’ve experienced in the workplace?

Welcome to a community dedicated to supporting those who deal with or wish to learn more about micro-aggressions. Did you know that 72% of folks are bullied by their managers? 36% of folks end up quitting their job because of bullying.

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