Might be off topic, but guys please, take care of your health. I've been rejected by all companies in the last 2 months.
I had my Walmart interview today and it went really well. And guess what? I got a rejection email.
I felt dizziness while working and fell down today.
I had to go to the doctor due to the anxiety and stress I was carrying since the last 2 months. It has affected my health.

It's important to push yourself to achieve your goals, but don't forget to "Live" in the process.

likehelpfuluplifting
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at
Highlighted IconHIGHLIGHTED

Walking is a good stress buster. Another laughing without reason. Please do not try second option without proper supervision otherwise people will consider you mad.
One can aim for min 1 hour walk in morning as well as night during interview process
And don't forget treat yourself after every rejection or selection. Go out to eat, buy something for yourself. Keep in mind don't splurge. These things worked for me. May be it can help others as well.

like

I will talk about a coincidence. Last year I applied and gave interview for 5 months but met only rejections. Last company where I faced rejections was really good and not hoping myself to be rejected but still things were not on my side. Then i got ill and left the idea of job search.
This year I again started in Feb after 6 months of break and the first company I cleared was the same last company from which I faced rejection. I didn't think at that time but now when I got some free time and looked my past. I believe this was something that was destined for.

Every time I had a rejection I went for a run and then bath in warm water.
The disappointed goes away and you learn from the experience.

Has almost 15 rejections and then 5 sucessful interviews. Finally got the offer I really wanted.

I myself suffer from anxiety and physical excercise is best way to get rid of it

likehelpful

Whatever works for you , life is a marathon itself. There are no shortcuts.

Recent IconRecent

Idk, but these days servicing in np is more stressful than earlier days (before 2018-19).
We are not taking care of our health, not taking proper diet due to this rat race.

Guys, companiya aayegi, companiya jayegi... OL aayenge , OL jayenge... But health bani rhni chahiye...

Pleas take a very good care of your health.
Health is wealth.

likehelpful

No matter how many interviews you attend daily , personally if there any work left to do I would do it at night keep interviews in day time...

like

Thanks fishes, I took the day off today to spend some time with my family and give myself some rest. The cool breeze in my balcony with no stress at all, hits different 😊

likesmart

My pray is always with you buddy, all your dreams will come true soon.

1. Don't tell anyone(including your family) that you're attending interviews . Because they ask what happened. If you don't clear it. It's stressful to convey.
2. Do a long time interview preparation, so that one doesn't have to refresh all the concepts at the last minute. Last day preparation is always stressful.
3. One should remember that he/she already having existing job. If you don't get a new job, that's not going to impact at all.
4. One should not compare himself/herself with any one. Especially the salary part.
5. I have seen people doing all the work in one stretch without any break . Instead of this it's less stressful to do the work in small chunks.

likehelpful

Thanks man

like

I am going through this time from last 3 months...this Friday is my last working day.. 1 week before because of all these and heat I got fall down ..as I have lose 4 kg weight in this time period.. because of stress and offc work. Had to take sick leaves but still waiting for some pending offer letter. Very tough time... health is wealth i understand and now m going for the WLB company and comparatively low CTC with others.

In these 3 months I have decided WLB over money..other in starting i was focused on CTC and learning, growth n all

like

Choti bacchi ho kya ?

funnylike

Absolutely true.. In this race most important thing is most neglected which is health... Even when I was on notice period and preparing for interview have lot of stress.. Did not realised put on 4 kg weight in just 2 months...surely it's a invitation to new diseases..our hard earning will be spend in hospitals if not take it seriously..

likeuplifting

My suggestion, don't give any interview now, just nore down all mistakes that you did, prepare yourself...then again start to give interview.

like

Hey buddy, dont take stress.. Its happens with every one at initial.. Its just one interview you need to crack after that you will not look back.. Just take care of your health, dont compare your growth with any one else coz we all are different. For some it takes time but definitely you will achieve what you want. Just have patience. Keep trying at your pace.
All the best :)

like

I do have anxiety problem, when I get some work. Though I am able to do it still when something comes up, i get nervous. How to handle this situation?

like

I was like little in that situation. Here are the things that helped me.

1. List down your tasks on paper for the day sorted by priority descending.

2. For each task - write down the steps/process in abstract and follow these steps when doing.

3. Take some 20-30 min break for every 2-3hr focused work. Do only relaxing activities during break eg: watch comedy, chat with family/friends, sleep, meditate. This will help us recharge ourselves.

4. Have sometime daily like 5-6pm for workouts/sports/yoga. Doing it with discipline will create big difference.

5. Go for some place evey 3/6 months and try to have conversation with unknown people.

Last one: DO NOT BRING WORK INTO LIFE AND LIFE INTO WORK.

like

Take care of your health! Companies will come again.

like

Take good care man, dont stick to laptop/desktop screen continuously, take frequent breaks, even if work doesn't allow.
Try to walk as @Wipro1 suggested, talk with people, dont just get stuck in office work.
Spend time with Family and friends.
Stress is something that builds up because we dont share things on our mind and it creates anxiety

like

I can understand what you're going through. Great thoughts from you. Have gone through what you went through since the better part of 2019. Applied for at least 100+ positions and got rejected on almost everyone. Only got 4 interviews out of all of them. At one point, I thought that there was something wrong with me. I had so much stress that I started to get short term memory loss and became so depressed that all I wanted to do was stay in bed to avoid facing another day. Stay strong and healthy!

like

what did you do to help yourself ? I'm going through same thing or even worse and i can't figure out anything at this point

I remember 3 years back I was rejected from 36 interviews but then was selected in one of the top Product basee company.
Never take stress of rejection coz it's part of life, every rejection is actually a learning.
Remember however much work you have but always take out time for your hobby outside work, this will help you to relax

like

Trust me! I have been there it seems like worst part of our life but then I realised that it all happens because of overthinking and anxiety, Have a cup of coffee and share your feelings with someone whom you trust.. then you will see the changes, don't overthink everything - it happens and everyone will experience this in their lifetime - Keep yourself strong and believe in yourself, Nothing is more than you, your family and your health...

like

@OP don't listen to all these people in comment section
They just know how to give clićhe advices
Reality is someone wjo faces only knows the reality and you should be sad and anxious about not getting good offers

like

Whatever happened to you is good for you only, incase if u got selected in Walmart , you will have to face toxic culture, so it is good that u got rejected and also some good company is waiting for you to selecting you.

like

Health should be our first priority but we realise this once its effected.

like

Take care buddy

like

Related Posts

What are the perks and benefits working in GE Healthcare? Bangalore office..how are they in terms of pay scale?

like

How is CGI for a SAP ABAP Consultant? WLB, hike and Work culture. Have interview tomorrow. YOE - 4.5

I think living a frugal life and aiming to retire early makes a lot of sense.

Recently, some of my family members are diagnosed with a rare diseases. When you look at the statistics, these are so many of these ‘rare’ conditions and cumulatively they are not rare.

These family members conditions made me reevaluate how I want to spend my life. I am 35 this year and I can’t decide if I should take great vacations with my kids or keep living a frugal life. Do you have the same dilemma?

likehelpfulsmart

Thoughts on R/GA right now? Have they done any notable or interesting work in the past year or two?

likehelpful

Whts the in hand salary in Capgemini for 25lpa fixed?

like

I’ve been working for my State Farm agency as a team member for 2 years. I am licensed in property and casualty as well as life and health, but only make $13 an hour. I technically can make bonuses but I’m not supposed to dig into a sale and I have to send it to a sales rep (I am service and retention mostly). My boss also has me running a retired agents office until a new one is chosen (its an hour away with no pay increase or mileage pay). Also, no benefits! Should I start job searching?

like

Will TCS change the work location before joining. What is the process

like

Hi Folks, I have recently joined Thoughtworks as applicable developer consultant. Currently I am having 2.7 year of experience. Just curious to know following information 1. Hike cycle and average hike percentage 2. Criteria for promotion to senior consultant 3. Average Hike percentage during promotion

Thank in advance for the reply ☺️

likeuplifting

Hi Fishes,
What kind of work is done in GCR Tax? Is there decent wlb?? Can someone pls share the hierarchy structure in GCR

like

Hi Fishes, How is Senior Consultant for 7.5 Yoe in EY India, Service Line - Business Consulting PI . And how much ( percentage) annual bonus they usually give? EY KPMG PwC Deloitte

like

Anyone heard of Ten Oaks Group? What's the company about?

like

Hi Fishes
I need your advice urgently I have 2 offers
1-
PwC 10.6 LPA fixed + 2.5 lac JB
2- Concentrix 16 LPA fixed + 1.5 lac JB

Which one should I choose?

Yoe- 2.8 years
Role- React JS Developer

So, I landed a Customer Service Advisor job at Sitel in the UK. But I heard that they fire you without any prior notice or end their campaigns abruptly, leaving us with no job. Can’t be facing the risk of no livelihood, right? Can anyone who worked with Sitel give me the real truth? And does Sitel sponsor Tier 2 Visas as such? I am surely looking for stability, security and growth.

like

Hi Fishes, I'd be glad to know below I formation as I have. 1) Insights about Salesforce Engineer position at Nokia 2) Interview process and difficulty level for 3+ year Salesforce Developer. Salesforce Amazon India Accenture India Google Deloitte

Hi Fishes,
Any updates on the Novartis hiring restart ?

Does Persistent Systems gives reimbursement for Internet/ Broadband wrt WFH ??

like

I’m work Operations for ML and am looking at Investment Banking roles at ML in New York, any advice when applying that could help me?

I think I bombed my final round today. Was taken a bit aback with a pure focus on numbers so took a bit of time solving it and in the end interviewer skipped one part of a chart cos she had to move on to other charts. The qualitative case part went well I think. Disappointed in myself!

like

How early is too early to leave Amazon? I haven't worked at FAANG before.

like

Hi Fishes,

Can we claim for electricity bill, chair table and internet expenses in Capgemini?

like

More Posts

How often does Accenture Strategy use Python during projects? Is it worth taking courses before joining?

Capgemini Amcat test doubt..

Forgot to click on submit button in Amcat email writing capegmini test. What will be impact. Do we have auto save and submit in Amcat exam?

like

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

like

Can sm1 help in calculating in hand salary for below brk up after maxing out 80c and 24A.Thanks in advance.

Post Photo
like

Hi everyone, I am locking for a job change . I have 8+ years of experience in hr generalist for 6 years and 2 years in knowledge management. My current package is 8.2 lakhs and expected is 12 - 15 lakhs, request you to please help me in fi ding a job in your organization

Does Deloitte India give 25 k for mobile phone not the USI one but Deloitte India

Hello fishes.. Could anyone please tell me What is the experience range of Lead Software engineer G140? I have been offered this role but based on my YOE i think i deserve more but need to know first the experience ranges for this designation

like
like

Would anyone in this bowl be interested in participating in live sessions? Perhaps tips and tricks, networking, interview tips, salary negotiation, etc. as topics…

likesmarthelpful

Hello Fishes,

I currently hold offers from below:
IBM - 15.5 LPA
CTS - 18.5 LPA
PWC India - 16 LPA
Oracle Financial Services Software(OFSS) - 21 LPA

Planning to join OFSS as I will work in product development team and can work in any shift timings with WFH.

Today I had my 2nd round interview with EY GDS and got rejected.
Do I need to worry about this and feel low?
Could EY GDS would have been better instead of OFSS?

Please provide your valuable inputs.

like

I work in field sales as an IC. My aspirational career path is to end up in people leadership. Recently, an Inside management position opened up that’s been brought to my attention by the hiring director. Question is, is going back Inside the right move to get into started in leadership? Or should I continue down the field path and wait until those field management slots open up?

like

Hi friends,
I have an offer as per the attached. Can you please suggest how much can i expect in hand per month?

Post Photo
like

Question for ppl (esp midlevels) who lateraled: did anyone ever get a substantive legal question or a case study on their interview? Any tough/unexpected questions?

like

As a self-pay lady, it’s really annoying to end a stim cycle with boxes on boxes of leftover medication. They could have estimated more closely and included refills or something.

like
like

I need your advice. I got an offer to join Morgan Stanley in Canada and want to know what my salary range is there. I have 10 years of experience in investment banking and will be a 5 member family living there. Can i get 200k per year, please advise. Appreciate your help on this.

What is 'Customer Success Team BU' in LTI? Does anyone have any background?

like

S&P Global what is the salary of a 9A grade employee with role Quality Engineer II in S&P Global?

like

Can someone at UBS help me to get referral for M365 SharePoint
Job reference 247978BR
Please dm me.

Post Photo

Has anyone else felt like they were blindly drinking the “kool aid” about their PG/firm’s culture? As a 5th year associate who has only ever worked in one firm and has no point of reference for different “cultures”, I sometimes wonder if I’ve been brainwashed.

likefunny

Additional Posts in Tech India

like
like

Koi batayega ye sensex ko kya ho rha hai? Paisa dalne k liye wait kar rha tha socha aur neeche jayega..aur upar ja rha hai.

funny

Is Genpact a good company to join?

like

Hi Fishes, As the recession is coming. I am really worried that I switch or not. I have got an offer from Here Technologies. Can anyone please suggest what should I do? I have 1.7 YOE in Android/Java application development with some devops experience as well. The last working for TCS is mostly in the last week of December. I am new in the IT industry but have worked on upwork as a freelancer during my college.

like

Is CTC of 6 lpa(in hand) ,at 26 and 3 yoe too less?
PS: Ofcourse I am taking opinion for someone else not me 😅

likefunny

Hello all,

My YoE 11.5 got offer from GAP Inc

Please tell me how is this company, work culture.

Your suggestion are welcome.

Thanks for your time

like
like

I hardly work for more than 30 mins a day in my current project in a small company. It's server monitoring support work and mostly no issues. I have 15 years work exp but still getting only 11 LPA. Should I remain here for wlb or upskill and move up.

likefunny
like

Which is the best company for a firmware engineer?

like
like

Do all FAANG companies offer a joining bonus?

likehelpful

I got offer from @LTI Lnt infotech,
31 LPA CTC.
P4 grade. Senior specialist.
Is it equivalent to manager role???
Is that CTC worth for the role??

9.3yrs exp. Java Full stack developer.

like
like

Need some suggestion. A very bad argument happened with your manager due to mismatch skill of work. what should we have to do? do we need to send a apolgy mail even though you are right?

like

Is it Bad to change the Sector from 'IT' and move into 'Investment Banking sector'?
Work Profile - Project Management Office
Some people say once you move out from the IT sector, there is no chance of getting back to IT.
Is this really true?

Please guide me.
Will it be good to accept the offer?

I'm working with an IT MNC in PMO profile and got an offer for the same profile but with the Investment Bank.

YoE- 3.
Current CTC- 9.5lakh (Pune)
Offered CTC- 16lakh (Mumbai)

like

Hello friends, I've 7.4 YOE as Senior Business Analyst. I've offers from both Capgemini and KPMG, both have similar offer. Which one is better to work with? please suggest..!!!
KPMG India Capgemini Tech Mahindra
Deloitte EY PwC

Folks what should be my CTC expectation with below experience and skills

Role - Tech Project Manager
YOE- 8 years
Skills - GCP, AWS, DevOps, DevSecOps

Please let me know. Need guidance

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal