Got laid off last week. Hitting two meetings a day. Mostly optimistic, but a little doubt and fear is creeping in. Any experience, strength, wisdom?

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Thank you so much everybody. (Still unemployed but got some freelance lined up ... keep it comin? :)

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Freelance. Depending on what market you are in there's plenty of work. Idle time is a sunofabitch for this alcoholic -- it's great you are hitting 2 a day. Stay close to the program and the promises come true. I know -- I've been there. Staying sober is the most important thing and the rest will work out the way it's supposed to.

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Definitely doing all of that. Thank you! Anything else?

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My work life has been a signing bonus or a severance package. High risk, high reward. So yes I have been here before - 4 times to be exact. First way hard. The next 3 was HP doing for me what I could not do for myself. I went to 3 meetings a day (AA, OA, Alanon- give me them all--hey when I go, I go big!!). HP has given you the gift of time and there are no coincidences. Nothing is wasted in God's economy, right? So go, chat it up, listen, put away chairs, and I promise you it will shift. Today I am living beyond my wildest dreams and the promises are all coming true. Many blessings to you.

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Been there. I'm so sorry, that really sucks. But I've never lost a job I loved, and I needed up w a better job. My sponsor told me to stay close to our primary purpose, staying sober and helping another alcoholic , and that worked. Going to meetings and honestly voicing your fears will help too.

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Also, remember you have an alcoholic brain that wants to get you to a drink. So while anyone who gets laid off is prone to thinking things like, "I suck," and "I'll never work again!", for us it's vital to call bullshit on these lies. And they're lies.

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Take it easy on yourself too.

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For the sobriety, do service work at meetings and introduce yourself to at least one person at those meetings. For work, there is no easy answer, keep reaching out for freelance work and while doing it talk to recruiters and line up interviews. You got this! Remember, drinking will only make things worse.

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Maybe it is "standard chewing out" but it bothered me a lot. So much that I find myself still getting all fired up inside thinking about it...
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WFH/Layoff/Security
Hi,
CCTC including all benefits is 16.57 with 8.3 YOE, primarily focused on Manual Testing.
Is it worth looking for another opportunity?
I am afraid after seeing layoffs news of EPAM, Publicis Sapient & most of the other companies calling employees in the office.
I love my WFH in PwC India & base location of Kolkata. & the best thing is stability in PwC India, they never lay off!!

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