Guys is it normal entering gay bars and being touched inappropriately all the time? Like private areas? I don’t mean cruising bars. I mean a normal gay bar? It’s always happening frequently to me and to be honest I don’t find this very normal. What are your thoughts?

Started talking to this guy through group a group telegram and one day he offered to pay for my lunch as I had helped him out with something. Since then he has been offering to pay for my dinners, salon visits, shopping etc and I have accepted 3-4 times. I am in a steady relationship and my boyfriend doesn’t know about this. The other guy just says he likes paying for my stuff and there’s no agenda. Is this a little weird?

Any ladies that would like to go out for dinner? 27M 🙃

I have a wee crush on one of the partners in my firm and I thought he liked me too, but neither of us did anything about it (which is entirely appropriate). That was all pre-Rona. Now I’m leaving the firm and pursuing another opportunity and staying in the same city. Since he’ll no longer be my boss, is there a way to find out if my feeling was correct? How should I go about this? (Especially given Rona?)

Any F 🐠 want meet up for drinks tonight? 31/m

I recently went from having an incredibly open and intimate long-term relationship with a person I was certain I was going to marry… to now getting asked “what’s your favorite color” on a first date. Godddd I hate dating sometimes

Anyone else expect there to be loads of attractive people when they started work and end up thoroughly disappointed?

It’s a crazy feeling for someone semi close to you, to of “been in competition” with you. For years. And you’re just now noticing. Like, girl. Is that why you act so conversationally constipated from time to time? You’re just a hater? 😂😂

Anyone want to go on a date today? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Grinder is so much more convenient for hookups. Anything similar for straight men?

I feel like I wouldn't get many tips as a server because I'm a guy, is this really true or am I just making it up?

Felt particularly good about how I looked today. And when I saw that a certain someone wasn’t at the office, I felt disappointed. Didn’t realize I was attracted until then. How do I un-realize it? 🤦🏼‍♀️

List of info people are interested in:
Age, sex, location, ethnicity, religion, height, insta handle (if shameless plug), one fun fact about yourself, what you’re looking for

What dating sites would you recommend? I feel all the good sites have a limited gay pool..

Looking for a gay woman on the east coast (yes I have given up on confining my option only to my city). I’m a clean person, funny, a good chef, good in bed and just overall wholesome. Bonus points if you are a top.

Had a second date planned for tonight, she text me this morning and has a high fever! Should I send a care package?

Anyone in search of dating / LTR?

I’m 26, 5’10” (prefer same height or taller), Libra, live in Manhattan, have a dog, drink socially, socially active but not a working out kind of person/super fit (dad bod), full time professional, live alone, have goals, ambivert, side ↘️

Feel free to HMU. 😊

When you're on FB in the bathroom for too long and the automatic lights turn off...

Do you ever think that this is a futile process?

Do we have salary advance policies in the big 4s either in Indian or global offices?

I have been talking to a recruiter for a little over a month about a position. I let her know out the gate that I really wasn’t looking to change jobs, but she just kept wanting to continuing the conversation. I didn’t have 2 interviews with the hiring coming and they know that I am not really looking to make a switch. They are now working on an offer letter and I know they’re going to offer me more money. I’m having my annual review this week. Any advice on how to handle a) job offer b) review?

How do I say to my counselor, "be prepared to see a big fall of my utilization because of things out of my control" without sounding like complaining or having a lot of negativity?

Advisory out in DC
Currently making 86k

Expecting promote to SC

What do I expect salay increase???

Got an offer of 16LPA fixed from Siemens Healthineers. YOE 4 with role Selenium automation. Can anyone working with Siemens Healthineers tell me if the offer is good. Also can you please tell me about the Work culture, WLB, Perks, onsite opportunity.

Is there concept of bench in product companies

Is Google open to remote? Interviewed within the healthcare research department, waiting to hear back from recruiter on next steps.

Is there anything you wish you knew about civil engineering before deciding on your degree?

Hired as SA1. if my utilization is low for round table but I’ve gotten good Snapshots will I go up to SA2 or SA1B, which I don’t want of course.

What are your book recommendations?

Work is an emotional rollercoaster - change my mind.

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(

Almost midnight here and I'm cleaning my medicine cabinet so I can reboot having a regular skin-care routine. I'm listening to one of my favorite musicals, "Ragtime", specifically the song "He Wanted to Say". Living 9 time zones away from home out of the US and watching the BLM movement there, unable to do anything concrete about it from here - this song I've listened to countless times, today about brought me to tears.

I really don’t mean this to virtue signal - just wanted to share a moment.

I’m so single I don’t know why. I’ve tried dating apps, played social sports, done hobbies that interest me, and even stopped looking. After all that, I still haven’t found someone #dyingalone

I want to buy my husband some underwear for Valentine’s Day. What brand do you guys like?

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

Hey. Is anyone here from Capgemini? Looking forward to interact.

What’s up DC?

Hi all! I’ve been dating my bf for about 4 months now and there are some things he says/is into that make me believe he is either Bisexual or has gender dysphoria. I could really use someone’s advice who has a similar experience like this. Is anyone willing to chat? I just want to be supportive and helpful.

Any Deloitte folks going to DU this week?

Any non-cishet male folks want to chat? Missing community right now!

Blow me one last kiss 😘

Carl Nassib 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I’m worried that my voice, communication style, and body language comes across as too effeminate for our straight clients and peers. I’m transitioning to sales now and am insecure that my personality and appearance may hinder sales gen? Client industry is very old school. Can LGBT partners//Ds/MDs chime in how they managed the same transition?

I could be your next husband. Slide in my DMs to find out.

Do you all still go to Barry’s boot camp? I am dying for an actual workout but don’t want to be one of those vanity gays going out in a pandemic.

Met a great woman this weekend. We are going on a date at the end of the month. Both have crazy schedules end of this month and next . I can’t stop thinking about her :) happy pride 🏳️‍🌈 ❤️

One year in NYC—24, enjoyed myself, but no deep connections with new friends/partners. Came to hopefully open the door on a variety of opportunities, but something tells me that spending another year here will not help that. Money flies, space is cramped, not thrilled with my office, hate winter. I miss LA a lot—I miss driving, the weather, the space, people...but everyone tells me I have to give NYC at least 2 years. Thoughts?

Solo trip to Puerto Rico. Any recs? Thanks fam.