Have you ever been in an interview and suddenly heard yourself apologizing for something you didn’t need to apologize for? I’ve done it - downplaying my experience, over-explaining, all because I wanted to seem “perfect.” Looking back, it really showed how much the job searching process messes with your confidence. Anyone else ever catch themselves doing that?

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No, I have not and definitely would not do that. You want to come across as confident and deserving in your interviews. No more apologizing because you haven't done anything wrong

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If the "sorry for existing" is a hard habit to break at first, remind yourself that it's also putting the other person in the uncomfortable position of having to reassure, and bringing attention to your "mistakes" that they may not have noticed or taken issue with in the first place.

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Well I had a slightly different experience and my interviewer even said that there’s no need for apologies since it wasn’t my fault. My last interview was virtual and the sound in the office that I was set up in didn’t work. So I apologized for the delay as we both tried to reach out to someone to assist us.

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Oh yeah, in a situation like that I would’ve apologized too. Tech troubles are so awkward, especially in virtual interviews. Glad the interviewer reassured you!

I can recall being in interviews and realizing I was downplaying things. It's that thing where I find it unseemly when people are always patting themselves on the back, but you can go too far in the other direction. It took me a while to realize that it's fine to take credit for something that worked out well.

I get that completely! It’s such a weird balance between not wanting to sound braggy and not shrinking yourself. I’m learning that taking credit for good work isn’t bragging, it’s just being honest about what you bring to the table.

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