Hello 🐠 I just got an offer from a small real estate fund on the west coast. What is your advice when it comes to relocation across the country for job when you have a kid with your ex in your home city ? I have decent relationship with my ex but I know I will miss my little one 😞 the offer is more than double with big upside in mid term.

I have strong feelings for my friend who also happens to be my superior at work. We also flirt with each other sometimes. I don’t know what to do.

I love living in Miami, but have found it incredibly difficult to make friends. I had a thriving social life/ friend group in Chicago. Anyone else finding it hard to build friendships here?

Coming from a family of immigrants and being one yourself, does anyone ever feel a sense of guilt with your success/salary versus your family members? If so, how have you dealt with this? Any suggestions on how to deal with it internally and emotionally?

If you loved your small independent broker dealer but they had just been acquired by a much larger corporation which does have benefits in terms, mostly, in technology, but you lose your “family” in the home office, what would you do and who would you look at if you were considering a change of your own?

A few extravert friends texted me over the weekend, panicking about WFH mandates and being socially isolated. I do not share their pain! Nice of them to care, though ❤️

Only divorce services for uncontested and amicable divorces

I just came home sobbing because I got too drunk at my female best friends house and her husbands male friend tried to take advantage of me when we were left alone in a hot tub. My boyfriend didn’t ask if I was okay but instead screamed at me, threw things and left the house. Dumping him is the only logical answer?? Am I crazy?

I just learned I was parentified severely, especially emotionally. The discovery came from outside of therapy, but having a place every week to sit down, slow down & reflect def led to it. Being enmeshed with my parents like this was a cause for my anxiety, low self esteem and workaholic, people pleasing tendencies. I'm working on extricating myself and finding my identity again in a way that will be easy on my conscience and values..so I'm learning! Please dont hesitate to go to therapy!...

Is bfs account Contract get extended or they simply release and we get bach to parent (cts), for another project is complete bgv happening or they just handle from their side?

Are there any mothers here who voluntarily gave primary custody to the kids father? I love my children fiercely but tbh I don’t think I’m cut out to be a single parent. Family and friends tell me I’m a great mom but at the end of the day having them on my own is exhausting and I end up just either letting them do whatever they want Bc I don’t feel strong enough to set a limit about it, or yelling at them. They’re 4 and 7 for reference. Please constructive responses only. Thank you!

I can’t imagine going back to working in the office everyday without seeing my boyfriend and plants all day. Just the thought of that makes me miss them!

I am an elementary school teacher. My oldest son is feeling drawn to ECE. He loves children, loves to help in vacation bible school, wants to work directly with people to help them. Thoughts?

Any recommendations for books for desi parents ? Politics , economics, world order , self help

How practical is living as a single parent in Europe (scotland/Norway)?

Opinions on career clerkships? Especially with a two year old and wanting another child eventually.

I’ve been married in a Catholic Church before and now divorced but my now boyfriend says he wants to marry me in a Catholic Church someday. How do I even start a petition for that? Also is that possible to re-marry in a Catholic Church?

Any tips on helping my remote bond/feel more connected with each other?

This is a question about friendships. Two friends got into a really bad fight this past weekend. They have each asked me to hang out this weekend. What do I do? I don’t want to have to choose sides. One is a friend I’ve known a little longer and has been a good friend and so she would feel betrayed and angry if she knew I were still friends with her now-enemy. The other I’ve known less longer, but we seem more compatible. Advice??

Any parents who are still on the safe side with Covid? We have a 1 year old and being safe and staying mostly home is really getting to me. Most of our friends have kids who are able to mask up or are vaccinated and it’s getting quite isolating. Especially now mask mandates are being lifted feeling like we can’t go anywhere without risking our kid.

Why is it that as soon as a male creative director is hard on you someone have to say “remember he’s a dad too”

M7 part time vs top 25-30 full time for career pivots and network?

New to gds. is today salary day? Or tomorrow?

Girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me right before we were supposed to leave the state and move in together. We broke up about 4 months ago. I couldn’t demonize her, so I’m still struggling with processing it and idk what to do. I’ve been looking into therapy, but I can only do online which leaves me hesitant. Any advice would be appreciated.

Recommendations for a wfh office chair? Preferably on the lower end of the range with good height.

I just finished watching several highly convincing YouTube videos and I’m telling you that you need to stop drinking bottled water. NOW.

How many days before onboarding mail came for BOA?

Has anyone taken ITIL 4 foundation test?

Can someone tell me how much time it takes for an official offer letter to be released after a salary negotiation interview in MS?

So what’s everyone buying? I just got me some ETH, ALGO and GRT.

Anyone wants go for drinks in the evening? New to SF and would like to explore new bars and clubs.

Can we just invade Iraq again? I’ll even start writing the patriotic country songs.

What is the salary range for product owner at EPAM system?

Hi Fishers,
I have 8.10 years of experience in ETL testing. Currently working in Cognizant and it is my first company.. I have decided to switch which is my first jump and have two offers in hand. Please suggest which one will be the best,
Offer 1 - TCS - 16.5LPA
Offer 2 - Saama Analytics - 17LPA
Attached is the offer letters.

Recently I had interview with oracle oci and it went well but haven't heard back from HR , how long does it take to update the interview status. My interview completed last week Tuesday.

Expected Pay for an Investments Analyst? (NY, large reit)

I need help figuring out if I’m being underpaid. I’m working on real estate private equity and I focus on fund models and property valuations. I’m currently base $80k with only 20% bonus. On top of that I have about 5 years experience. I’m good at my job and receive good reviews from everyone. I feel like I could be compensated better but the company says that’s what they think I’m worth. Any help or insights would be great!

Which is better path in CRE... Multifamily asset manager or multifamily underwriter?

A colleague is hiring for his team for an entry level underwriting position as a credit analyst. Agency underwriting (multi family). Location is either nyc or Atlanta. DM me if you need a referral. Cap one is still WFH, office optional until after Labor Day. Thereafter, it’s a hybrid work schedule (in 3 days, out 2 days - Mon and Fri are out days)

What is the expected salary for an associate in a real estate fund in London (fund management, portfolio analysis)?

And do you guys consider real estate a good place to be re working ours, benefits and Co?

Anyone know of good places to find smaller REPE firms by location? I'm having trouble searching for smaller firms online.

Looking to relocate back to Boston, but I don't want to live/work downtown. I would prefer the northern suburbs or even Southern New Hampshire.

Is there a way to consolidate 2 mortgage balances ?

In commercial real estate, is Underwriting or Asset Management a better career path?

Does signing up for hardship assistance during COVID impact credit score?