Why is it that as soon as a male creative director is hard on you someone have to say “remember he’s a dad too”

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Lmao I have never heard that ever.

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What does that even mean?

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Yoooo this made me LOL. I too am so confused

B/c sometimes the younger generation has a tough time handling criticism. They feel the need to cushion the blow so you don’t take it personally... Not trying to be a wannabe boomer here (I’m 34) but it’s the truth... From my experience anyway.

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Of course not. Society deems men as physically more intimidating. I’m not condoning it. I’m just saying it “is
how it is.”

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Because the patriarchy allows for and champions abusive behavior — which it IS NOT. Get out of here with that “but he has...” business. He’s an @sshole. We all know it. Let’s call it out and get it out.

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Wat

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Never heard that

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So you can sympathize with his kids?

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I hope if I’m ever hard on someone they remember I have cats.

But seriously I don’t understand this. Does “hard on you” mean “yelled at you?”

I've literally never heard anyone say that...

I’ve had three people saying that to me at multiple occasions

Never encountered or heard of this

Do people not get ripped on by their CD’s anymore?

Never! We have to be gentle with the kiddos or they’ll write mean subtweets about us.

Next time someone says that, your retort: So was Josef Mengele, your point? (Mimic the shrug emoji as you say this)

“Mimic the shrug emoji”
You mean....like...shrug?

That is such a lame thing to say when defending someone who’s being tough on you, lol.

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