How can I change my partner if the bosses favor him? This person is very manipulative. Do I need to leave the company?

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Leave the company. If they favor him what you say doesn’t matter. It’ll be difficult to go to a new team.

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What’s wrong with them favoring him? It could be to your mutual benefit if they like him. Much better than having a partner they don’t like. Do they like you? He might be the reason you have a job. Be careful what you wish for.

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I’d be curious to learn about the situation as well to better determine what they should do. I took it as they don’t like the author

Don’t leave the company leave the team. There’s nothing wrong with asking to switch teams for broader experiences.

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