How do you determine whether your inability to get out of bed in the mornings is due to depression or mere avoidance of all the crushing work and stress that awaits you? Still WFH and now beginning to get worried at how late I’m getting out of bed these last few weeks and feeling completely unmotivated to do anything.

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I feel the same way. I notice on weekends I am much more energized so for me, it’s definitely the job. I feel so burned out and everything seems boring and tedious.

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I try to go workout before I do anything else for the day, it delays the inevitable feeling that you mention and lets me take my mind off of it for a bit

I try to get up by 7:30 and do an hour of work and shower before calls start. It doesn’t always work but really helps momentum in the morning.

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