How do you handle a dispute when one person is lying but you only know they are lying bc someone else you trust more told you but that person isn’t willing to come foreword?

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If they won’t come forward, their version of the story is irrelevant. I’d handle as though they did not.

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Couldn’t agree more.

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Wholey disagree that this person needs to put themselves in potential harms way. Things don't happen in a vacuum, and leaders that act like they do have forgotten their privilege. There are literally studies on this. Get documentation or find something about the story of the person who's lying. If that fails you focus on their process or approach

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This 🙌🙌

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I think it depends on who this person is and their significance in your life. This determines how I would handle the situation.

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