How often do you have sex? Either hook up or in a relationship? I’m a single guy and the last time I hook up was months ago. Is this normal?

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Have the amount/frequency of sex that works for you. Don't concern yourself with identifying and targeting what may be "normal".

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at various points in my life, i’ve sought sex out multiple times a week or once every few years. and though it keeps fluctuating, it’s always just the right amount.

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Partnered and it's been over a year.

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Let's find out if it's important for you together!

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Hookups have lost their excitement. I've experienced it all.

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My experience is different. But obviously very personal/situation-dependent.

And I agree KPMG2, get the practice, get the confidence. You wouldn’t run a marathon without plenty of preparation. So don’t select hookups as if they have to be lifelong

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Months ain't bad

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I got it in last night and the night before. Single and living my best life.

I also love this lifestyle, minus all the laundry required to keep April fresh smelling sheets for each new visitor. Getting it in anywhere by my Westin bed is just not as comfortable.

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3-4x a week lately.

Single. But I go through spurts, had a couple week dry spell last month because I was busy and just didn’t have the time for it.

Repeat playmates 90% of the time. I avoid the apps as much as possible, they’re a time suck and guys can be flakey.

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It depends on the mood… i had times of multiple times per day… now one time per week is ok and I am single

I'm even too nervous to tell people their attractive and I like you...fear of rejection..

Why? This is an anonymous app so hopefully you answer that honestly, though I will never be able to factcheck, so it is what it is.

Are you afraid because you have made compliments in the past and you have a consistent record of being rejected, or you are too afraid of any rejection so you keep saying "I will try with the next guy", and 20 "next guys" later you have not complimented or asked one guy anything? Then the scary 1:45A lights are now on, so the night is a bust!

I’m happily single and haven’t had sex with a partner in about a year.

I also have no intentions of getting a partner either.

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