How okay is it to have a second kid for a working couple, nuclear set up family, in one of the metros in India? What is in store in life for 2 people trying to balance family and careers? How do you think it fares in the long run?

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If both the partners are working, it's no easy feat to have two children and maintain work-life balance, unless you have elders (grandparents) at home to support parenting. Either one of the partners need to (temporarily) sacrifice their career growth to make sure the children are getting sufficient positive attention until they attain a certain age. But again, the standard of living takes a hit in that case. Considering all this, we have decided to stop with a single child.

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With the current mind set of people around, it's essential to have 2 kids so that they have someone to lean on for good or bad days ..

Also, there is a lot of difference between how a single child grows up compared to 2 children growing up as a family..

From a parent's perspective it's always a challenge, but from a child's perspective it's essential to have 2 or more :)

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