i am in a relationship with this guy we recently met but the thing is he is not ready to contribute financially to the relationship not that i am complaning but he tells me all the time he has money but i pay all the bills idk what to do .

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Although idk why you only recently met this guy but you’re already sharing bills

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Break up with him.

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Dump him

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