I am in this AM scene for 2 years and no luck! Girls know ki hmare pas option bhut h aur ladko ke paas nhi! They are searching best of best of best. Jaise 25lpa wala mil gya to 35 wala bhi mil sakta hai. 35 wala mil gya to 40 wala bhi mil sakta hai. 40 mein bhi koi aisa mil jaaye jiski height 6ft ho. No Place For Average Guys☹️

About me- 27 , 5.6ft 17lpA

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Sad reality.
But hope you get a good match . All the best.

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100% true I faced the same situation where girl was fine from her side but girls parents rejected me because of this.

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It's frustrating sometimes.

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What I believe, based on my discussions with numerous female friends, woemn don't want to go for arranged marriage. The idea of fairy tale is always keyed into their DNA, unless a woman is totally submissive to her parents (which isnt the case now). In my years of dating, Luckily the females in my circle or the ones I have dated or even if they are my exes now, they never looked for so many conditions. For them, they liked the guy and they went for him. The conditions which you are going through generally come from women who are reluctant to get into arranged setup and still being forced to go for it. So the conditions they throw are a way to send their family off track and make it difficult for the family to look for a guy. Even today I thank my exes for making me a better man, we still talk as friends.

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@ American Express. Yes you are right Women are not wrong if their expectations are high
But when men have preference it's considered wrong and immoral. I just wanted to state what I feel is true

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Hope i edit your life 🥹

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Thanks for the sweet gesture 🥹. I can't DM you, Can we have a conversation?

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The fact that you are posting matrimonial comment on Glass door itself shows why you are not getting a match. Work on your personality, bring down the criminal dowary amount to zero. Money is your mind, may be they are not thinking about it.

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No I am just sharing what I feel is actually happening in society. also I think huge no of men which are facing the same issue. And Dowry?? I never asked about it from any girl nor I want dowry.

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Bro these days men are taking time and want to search a girl who do not file false dowry cases 498a 125.

Be very careful, Dowry cases are very common and then they demand 1 crore alimony..
I know 5 cases of my friends and in neighborhood going on.

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This is a mind that people are stuck with does girls. I belive boys should look and focus on their wor not girls wo apne app ajatehai wobhi achee many girls want boy who sold just be side of her that's it.

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Maybe you are chasing the girls who are not meant for you. Be true to your personality. Someone will find your personality a match with her.

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I might be wrong but infact I feel guys have better options in girls in AM process. Infact in this whole process you have to keep your expectations to bare minimum.

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Right actually expectations point was not advice but I meant girls need to keep expectations very low in terms of looks or smartness. Guys usually get good looking girls but girls have to compromise that aspect.

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Yes ,same happens with me ..everytime they hear the package, they ghost (even their parents ghosted)...even when their daughter doesn't earn anything .lol

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Karna hi kyu hai Bhai jab apna hath jagannath hai?

Trust me ur doing good, and youl do great in years to come!

Thanks Bhai 💪

Not just a girl but her parents are also responsible for this kind of fairytale....

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