I am struggling whether to leave my job that I just started 3 months ago. It's a remote paralegal job. However the boss is extremely challenging I've never had to work for someone so difficult before. Had an interview yesterday I'm hoping I get it for a different position for $20k more. I'm thinking of only giving one week notice if I get it because I'm not doing anything that the other the other paralegals don't know how to do. Has anyone else given short notice?

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First and foremost, wait until you definitely get the position in writing before discussing to leave. Secondly, times have changed with the 2 week notice. Sometimes giving notice allows them to terminate you the same day. Tread lightly.

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I have given shorter-than-standard notices before. Basically, for a similar situation. Toxic people, and I knew it wasn’t going to be something I could do for long. I want to say it was around a week too, even though they gave me all the issues around not giving 2 weeks. I weighed the pros and cons, and it was worth it for me.

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One week. After five years. He thought I owed him. You owe no one anything after progressing toxicity.

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The standard is to give two weeks notice, of course, so you might want to do that if you've got concerns about burning any bridges. If you've been at the job for such a brief tenure it may not really matter. It's not like you'll be wanting a reference from a toxic boss. If you get the other offer, and the current job is just too awful to endure, you might as well give one week notice and get out.

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Thank you!

Unfortunately, the best bet is to always give a two week resignations notice. The reason being is that, attorney look upon that as a consideration to them (or other attorneys) whether or not they are considerate. Besides, it is ethical. That way, they have time to find a good replacement. I hope you get this position for 20K more. Sounds like a blessing.

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I think the answer to this depends on the challenging supervisor. If by “challenging” you mean abusive, there’s no reason to work in a hostile environment. I believe in giving at least two weeks notice, but NOT if you are being mistreated or abused. If that’s the situation, you can certainly speak with HR about it. Sometimes they will move you to another office or assign you to a different attorney if it’s a larger firm. Be careful there, because I have heard about Firms that do this for six months and then let you go. This is a way for them to mitigate hostile work environment claims or a retaliation termination. I would try to speak with your attorney and let them know that you’re leaving, but not until you find a job and are hired. You can just say the job is not working out and you’re giving notice. You are under no obligation to disclose where you are going. For sure they will ask. Beware. And I do agree with others who posted here that they may walk you out the same day which will give you time between jobs or allow you to start sooner if the other job wants that. But you need to be mentally and financially prepared for that scenario.

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You know yourself better than any stranger here does. Do what is best for you. Leaving a job without having isn't wise. However, it can be necessary in some situations. You don't know when or if the other job will be offered. Look at your finances and see if you can quit before getting another job.

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. Some firms are so arrogant that they do not recognize the difference between constructive criticism and destructive criticism. If it's become very unhealthy and toxic, you should trust your instincts and leave. The notice you give is up to you. Ideally you want to give 2 weeks notice but I've been a paralegal for nearly 40 years and I had one instance where I only gave a one day notice because it was that bad. Some firms have adopted the policy that they'll compensate you for a 2 week notice but they expect you to leave immediately to protect the firm's interests and prevent sabotage, etc. Always trust your gut but be prepared for Plan B. Remember the legal community is small and it is possible you might run into them later in your legal career. Always be professional and gracious.

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Once I couldn't take anymore abuse and I gave no notice but then expect not to get a good reference.

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I’ve been in law for over 40 years, I’m the best of the best in several areas of law. Unfortunately I have experienced being in a hostile work environment and the attorney allowed it. He cussed me out calling me a MF and blamed me for errors that were clearly the person making the most noise. Most recently a case settled and one of my enemies made a huge fuss about an incorrect name on a deposition notice. Now the front page caption correctly identifies the doctor, but after the notice I did not change the doctor name - the correct doctor was identified in emails and the efiling was not rejected. Further, the case settled. Yet the attorney called me in the office with the young lady insulted me and told me to go home and never called me back. Everyday I was belittled by these staffers and he allowed it, I’ve been there 21 years with exception of time he sends me home which has caused me financial distress. One thing that’s true thru will blackball you and he doesn’t want me to work anywhere else but control me. My daughter was injured by a car at 10 and he didn’t help us in fact didn’t show up for court and caused the nursing company case to be dismissed. Yet still he doesn’t pay unemployment or take taxes out. So even if I file there is no record with unemployment. It’s wrong but he’s getting away with this. If I go to grievance or EEOC, he will blackball me even worse. I’ve help him make millions as a personal injury attorney and the way he treats me and what he is doing is illegal but he is getting away with it.

So whatever you do - don’t leave until you secure a job and don’t put him on your resume. I’m too old to be out here looking but I am.

He gave us disability and life insurance then let the payments lapse. He is the worse of the worse. Yet again what can you do?

This attorney only hires his girlfriend’s kids and pays them more than their worth. In fact, everyone

Hello there. Can you provide clarity on this for my own knowledge? " incorrect name on a deposition notice. Now the front page caption correctly identifies the doctor, but after the notice I did not change the doctor name - the correct doctor was identified in emails". Just tying to make sense of what happened here. Was this an expert deposition?

I am looking for a remote paralegal job. How hard was that job to get? - Just earned my paralegal certificate...

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