For anyone in this bowl. How crucial is it for you to have a formal dining room separated from the kitchen? My son and daughter-in-law are buying a house for their future family and I'm trying to convince them a formal dining room looks better and makes things less chaotic in the kitchen, especially with kids. Am I out of touch? Or is it still important?

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Nice if you can get it, but definitely not crucial

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Nice but not a non-starter. It’s not ‘that’ big of a deal.

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I agree with you. Traditional is sometimes good.

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This is how I feel but after reading some of these maybe it's just not important to younger folks anymore.

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I think it makes a house a lot less crowded for guests too. I still want a formal dining room if we can afford it.

It's definitely nice to have but the housing market is so limited now that they probably won't find their ideal house anyway. Just because they buy something doesn't mean they have to die in it. They can always make a move again in the future.

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