I had two disappointing encounters over the past couple of months with two guys. The first one I slept with him too fast and didn’t turn into anything serious. The second one I waited a while to sleep with and sex was disappointing. Now I’m a little confused as how long to wait to have sex going forward.

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Wait until marriage, as it will be more rewarding with a person truly committed to you.

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As a guy I understand and can relate

If a guy loses interest in something serious after sleeping with you, he probably never saw you as wife material to begin with, or he wasn’t looking for a relationship.

So instead of holding off, why not just go with the flow and enjoy every connection for what it is? The right one will come along when he does.

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Give me a try.

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Dammit my man beat me to it.

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Honestly, there’s no “right” time, it’s about comfort and connection. Sometimes waiting helps build emotional trust; sometimes chemistry speaks for itself. What matters is why you choose, not when.

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How many DMs you got?

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Do it when you feel like doing it. No one who sleeps too fast or too slow will ever make a difference. The Guy already has a plan as soon as they meet you, to see if they’re going to take you seriously or not.

Just do it!

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