I didn't apply for a job that would have set me up for the future in the government. I wouldn't have to worry about money or future jobs. My boss had just given me a small pay rise and talked up the future and so I felt good. I now severely regret not applying for the job and cannot stop thinking about it to the point of insomnia and depression. I even contacted the employer but too late. It's a small town and rarely anything comes up. I hate myself and feel like I failed my family. :(

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Think of it as karma. You helped him who knows how that will come back in a positive way, maybe another job opens up there. Lots of nepotism and favoritism in getting government jobs if you have a connection is maybe this gives you the future opportunity when something else opens up there. We all make mistakes but the key is to continue to keep looking and being open to future opportunities. You’ll get another chance at something that is meant for you.

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Thanks for the replies everyone. Going to see a doctor to get some good sleeping pills as over the counter stuff isn't helping and I think my week plus sleep deprivation now has me in a vicious cycle, making the anxiety and depression worse which makes the sleeping non-existent. Hopefully once I get on top of the sleep I can move forward. Thanks again.

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