I just want to make sure it isn’t just me, but have any of you guys faked it? Like when asked by the Mrs if you “finished”?

I’m worried something may be going on with me; perhaps stress related. This isn’t the first time I’ve had to pretend.

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Depends where you finish. Some places are more obvious than others.

You can always just ask to finish in a different way. Say you got really close but missed and ‘can you give me a hand?’

You’re probably fine btw. We tried being quite so as to not wake the baby and that was a turn off for me.

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Have you tried stimulants (Viagra etc)? Does that make things easier or do you feel like you don't even have the sex drive?

If it's the latter, check your testosterone levels during your next physical. Low T causes all sorts of issues. Simple pill (clomiphene citrate) fixes it.

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Some slightly higher blood pressure if you already have a risk of high BP but certainly nothing a doctor would be concerned with. I just named Viagra as an example of a stimulant.

Sorry I have to opposite problem. Can’t last for shit.

Yep. I faked it before. It is not a common occurrence. Sometimes you just want to get it over and rest, but also make her happy. Conflicting priorities, I guess.

If you were tired or stressed, then faking seems like a logical alternative. Doing it all the time is not good though.

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