https://drcareyyazeed.com/why-black-women-hurt-each-other-in-the-workplace/. I posted a couple weeks ago about my experience with other Black women. A woman in this group came with her nose shoved prominently in the air came and laid out all of her baggage inadvertently while telling me in so many words I didn’t deserve a meeting or connection because of the hurt she had experienced….. I suggested therapy for her but this article reminded me vividly and needed to be shared.

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Never saw your original but I’d bet $100 it was Associate Partner.

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She was but what I said was misrepresented

Oddly enough, I’m OK with that

Oh I remember the post....😶

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Dang…I missed the tea 😭😭

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If you’re talking about what I shared with you, I can see that you’re still missing the point, but there is a seed that was planted because you have not let the conversation go

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