I sometimes hear the expectations they tell the "new hires". The expectations do not always match reality. When the "new hire" mentions they were told they don't have to do ____, how do you react?

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In the moment, I roll with it in a cordial way. “I can’t speak to what exactly you were told, but I can tell you that the realities of this job will require you to [fill in the blank]”.

I expect adult professionals to be adaptable when the realities of the job do not measure up to their expectations, especially when the differences between expectations and reality are relatively minor.

If they feel strongly that an egregious misrepresentation of job expectations has occurred, I see that as something for them to take up with the hiring manager and/or talent acquisition.

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I think it was different when I was hired. I think I was told to do many more things than my coworkers and when I mentioned it to them, they said "oh yeah we never do that". But I was still expected to by my manager.

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