I want to receive more compliments from men, what can I do to go about that? So far in a lot of my relationships with men it seems like I’m the one that’s always stroking their ego and making them feel wanted… sometimes I want my ego stroked too and want to feel validated. Tips???

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Communicate to them early on that your love language is words of affirmation. If they truly care, they’ll make an effort.

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Plastic surgery

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Maybe stop doing that as a starter and don’t give them any compliments. A prerequisite should be the man showcasing he wants you, if that’s not happening it’s feeling one sided from this very short message atleast.

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Damn you do 100lb squats that’s amazing…I bet you have a great core and thighs…(see a compliment 😉

It’s good to hear compliments but What matters more is that you feel good about yourself

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You need to be obsessed with yourself to the point where a guy can get hypnotized in your field. Flip the script and you will see the vast difference

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I mean dm me and I will . A women deserves to be validated and pampered

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DM me I'm single and need a lady in my life that will accept and love me

Do the men you’re with not compliment you when they see you?

No, not really

Not trying to sound harsh. Losing weight usually is very effective. Then get a professional makeup done and some accessorizing. Good luck!

Just my observation. I’m not saying she is fat, she could be totally healthy, but when a woman is skinny (with some curves), men always give her a compliment

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Be your self and don't try to get there attention cause the best compliments come when you act your self and don't seek attention id compliment a lady when she just acts herself and doesn't flaunt anything .nails

Do it for yourself first. That confidence within will excuse to others and make them want to do what you want them to

To be complimented you need something to stand out? Something that sets you apart from everyone else? And that doesn't mean letting your skin all hang out because most men hate that I know I certainly do That command a great smile the way you carry yourself, the way you take charge of conversations or situations it's not all about looks you know

I mean stop and think about it for a second when you are giving a compliment to a gentleman? What makes you give him a compliment something that stands out the way he carries himself if he's all shy and timid or odds are you're not going to notice him but if he's strong and I don't mean a strong as in fighting an alligator strong I mean strong as in not a pushover you're going to notice

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