I was shouted at and threatened to get slapped by my team lead. Went to my HR but was too scared to put this incident on paper. My reporting manager gave me a really hard time about not talking to him before going to HR. I had a conversation with him a month before the incident that I don't feel comfortable working with the team lead. He put nonsense negative comments in my mid-year review. What should I do? My whole team ignores me. I get bullied by her every day.

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Why are you posting this in the humor bowl?

It says humour and stories. Sorry

What your yoe and domain

Thank you so much

ask her what she wants outside job 😉

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