I guess I’m officially being off boarded team doesn’t care no one has said anything … I’m a ball of nerves thankfully my old company wants me back — feeling so sad and angry and just incredibly nervous

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What happened? Did you actually get a notice or are you just assuming based on a gut feeling? That is definitely frustrating, but it sounds like you have a safety net, which is a good thing.

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Wow I'm so sorry - what happened? glad you found a backup plan but even so...horrible position to be in!

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I'm so sorry to hear this. Better days are ahead. Hang in there.

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Good riddance to them! Their loss. That's how I see it.

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I resigned on Friday but then spoke to boss and we came up with a solution to the issues I was resigning for… but then I guess she changed mind

That sucks, sorry to hear that. Hope you have a better experience going back to your previous role. Also, don't feel bad for resigning/ pointing out the issues within the company, you did what was best!

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