When do I tell my close coworkers about accepting an offer to another firm? Conflicts hasn’t cleared yet.

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After conflicts and background checks clear. I’ve had the HR of the new firm let me know that I can give notice and that they don’t need anything else from me. Don’t say anything before that - word spreads. You might have seen on this bowl that there are people who fail conflicts and have had offers rescinded.

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Thanks!!

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How about just when I leave that new job? Gotta keep em guessing.

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