I was thinking about the recent post re a Black woman CEO…. I’m in enterprise sales. I’ve been in my current role for a year. I am just now beginning to realize that other Black women have not been open, or receptive to me at all. Black men are the only ones who will consistently take a meeting with me. Idk if it’s because I live in Atlanta and women here are in a weird competitive mindset or what. I always feel like I go out of my way to support Black women first in anyway way I can. Thoughts?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Im based in HTX so I can’t relate to your experience. But I do wish you came to Blacks in Technology in Houston. I think it would be a different story. Also, are you in Black women tech groups? Try those.

like

I need to find some, thank you sis 🙏🏾

like

I’ve seen both sides of it, and can be so different based on where I am and who I’m working for. Some women have been incredible and so supportive and others I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. I really try myself to be supportive anyone I can and unfortunately not everyone does that.

like

Black executives have to be very selective about the people that they choose to support

like

As I said, in my other comment to you - good luck

I'll be honest. Black women have been my worst co-workers and bosses. On my last job, I received the cold shoulder, and then I was accused of bullying (which was untrue) by another. These were two black partners I tried to network with. I have enough experience to know that not all people are the same, but I have simply found that most black female leaders at that level don't know how to engage with black women. Not even how to network and lift each other up in a genuine way. We have so much trauma. The sad thing is that I network best with African and Caribbean black leaders and peers or black males. If you want people to know you, I urge you to reach out and offer yourself to be networked with. I've seen popular leaders tell everyone to please set up a coffee chat, etc, because they want to get to know others. They extend the invitation and often. Please don't assume everyone knows it's okay to reach out to you. Best of luck, and I appreciate your desire to break the barriers.

like

Again AP. Please pause and reread my posts. None of them were written to insult fight nor "clap back". Therapy is a good thing for everyone. My therapy is prayer and regular introspection of how I am living, my own flaws, and needed correction. And I am thankful for correction. Everything was written with good intention and genuine care. I will not be moved. Good luck to you.

like

Related Posts

Discrimination question. I’ve been passed for several job opportunities in the last 4 years. Every single time the job is given to a male who’s older than me, despite my qualifications being more in line with the job. Is it worth it to make a discrimination claim? I already know HR won’t help me but should I contact an attorney?

like

What %age of people in your firm do you like, tolerate, and hate?

like

If you don’t have a CD above you and you are doing the work, do you just send it off or do you ask other creatives for their take? Seems weird to just do work and present it without a gut check from somewhere.

What do you wear WFH?

like

Has anyone changed their pronouns at work before? How did it go?

Shooting an email to HR doesn't seem right 😅

like

Entering 3rd year at mid size firm in SE doing ID. I like my firm but really dont like the partner i exclusively work with and am going to put in notice. Do i tell the partner i work with first or the managing partner?

like

Characteristics/actions of the worst manager you've worked with?

likesmart

I have a photographer/ videographer on my team who is amazingly talented at executing the work, but he has no larger creative ideas or vision, and totally shuts down when we try to push him. Has anyone ever successfully grown someone like this or is it a lost cause?

like

What’s your best advice for dealing with an insufferable manager? I’m being gaslit and micromanaged to wit’s end.

like

I am done trying to pretend everything is fine at work. The higher ups on the team kept asking if I’m doing anything fun for the weekend during video calls. I felt the pressure to make something up but I just can’t. I’ve been struggling with depression, loneliness, anxiety with immigration and the fact that I might be out of work soon cuz my visa is expiring. I’m thousands of miles away from my family and I just want everything to stop. But when my manager kept asking in front of everyone am I

like

How do you win back a partner’s trust after making careless errors (e.g., misstating case law)

like

When you ask the intern to take meeting notes

Post Photo
likefunny

I've worked with the partners I report to, but not so much outside of my practice group. Is it normal for an associate to request a partner to do something or request information?

like

First year analyst here... my manager often asks me to buy coffee for her and never pays me back. What should I do?

like

How do you deal with a Midlevel who tells the partner you’ll cover for them, but gives you less than 24 hours notice they’ll be gone without asking if you can cover? I helped out back on July on a deal with they were on vacation, and now every vacation since they keep adding me back on without keeping me appraised of the deal in the interim

like

Please do not show to client before Partner review!

Post Photo
likefunny

I have a few interviews lined-up and wondering if it’s unprofessional to wear my nose ring on an interview? What are your thoughts?

like

Im in a toxic relationship. It’s been bad for a while and my significant other treats me with disrespect. I just made out with a team member as we were flirting all night at drinks. It felt reallygood

likesmart

Anyone else struggle with lots of team events/dinners during the week? I love my team but need me time at night to be my best self. 1 night out is my max. Thoughts on explaining it to team?

like

I’ve been working for a small investment firm for about a year and am having some issues with my boss. We have a weekly check-in but he’s ALWAYS 2-3 hours late, or skips the meeting altogether without warning. He also never replies to any of the emails I send. I already spoke with him about these issues, but things haven’t really changed. I really like the work I do but I’m starting to feel frustrated about the situation. Any advice? Or anyone else in a similar situation?

like

More Posts

I am having skills of Analytics but not getting job I know Excel and other tools also Power Bi, Google sheets, Google Data Studio, Python, My Sql in learning.

Hello friends, Unable to DM details in needful areas. I'm counting on you for a handful of support to unlock the feature with the LIKE button. Thank you so much for your contribution in advance.

like

Hi fishes,

I'm looking for job switch in Manual testing role.Kindly refer my profile if your organization has any openings.
Thanks in advance.
Skill set-manual testing,functional testing,SQL
YOE- 5 years
LWD- 14/01/2023

Hi

We have openings in Accenture Mumbai Customer service roles for voice process

UK shift
Rotational Shifts and off
Immediate joining

If you or someone else is looking out for a job please let me know.

like

How possible is it to build a US-based career doing global public sector work while not being in New York or DC?

Currently a Manager at Accenture in Public Sector. Living in a progressive US city with a few direct flights to Europe, but definitely not New York or DC. PhD in public affairs. Actually I'm on the hiring roster for a P3 role at the UN.

Considering some life choices that would keep me living where I am though. Debating if this would kill hope of global work.

like

PR Groups. Might need to fire ours. They aren’t forward thinking enough for our brand and the reach we want to attain. Small, innovative shops would be nice without a shit ton of overhead. Local not necessary. But overall creative thinkers that aren’t just order takers. Got any good references?

like

I am currently an asset management analyst in real estate in Vancouver Canada and I am planning on moving to Los Angeles. What kind of salary should I be expecting?

like

How long it takes you to get an offer after the final interview?

like

What kind of comp package (Sign On, Base, Bonus, Equity) should I target for L4 Product Strategy Chicago?

like

I lie to my girlfriend every time we make plans — I always tell her to be ready an hour before I want her to be and she’s still normally running 15-30 minutes late

likefunnysmart

My uncle I met a week ago suddenly died. He hid his heart condition from his wife, my aunt. He was having tea in the morning when he had a stroke. She did not have a last word or consider the possibility that he’d pass away so suddenly and soon. She is beating herself up over how he left and they didn’t have a chance to talk that morning. Fishes, sharing this so you call your loved ones today and not take people for granted.

likeuplifting

Sorry Cubbies, better luck next time

like

I'm trying to buy a bigger than normal whiteboard for my home office: any recommendations?

like

The partner in charge of my office had a nearly hour long conversation Tuesday with our new hire, behind closed doors. I didn’t hear yelling, but the bits I heard weren’t good. Will he be fired?

like

Any good guidance on ifrs to gaap differences to look for when evaluating ifrs statements? More high level.

like

How long does it take to get offer letter from MasterCard after HR discussion ?

like

Lol have fun

Post Photo
likefunny

Average salary for a junior cw in amsterdam?

like

Hey guys, any GCP TAM’s here. Just wanted to get a feel for the job, what does your typical day look like ? Is it a role you enjoy ? I’m a consulting M 10+years. Love working with clients and doing innovation using tech wondering if this would be a good role.

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal