I would give anything to have a man look at me with this much passion

27 years M from suburbs Chicago looking to date

Anyone around Chicago and suburbs for general merriment and dating. 32 M, tall and a fit built

Mid-30s M looking for a cute Nigerian lady to chat with.

So I just recently got into dating after a break up 3 months ago. I joined some dating apps and have been getting quite a few matches. I’ve never dated anyone like to a point of going on traditional dates. Basically, I have no clue what to do on a date once i have one planned. Like I’ve been on a few and it’s been just talking but I guess I have no clue what to do after. I’m probably just rambling at this point but basically I need advice on actual dates and how to feel it out and what to do. Ty

I had a sex dream about my senior, but I have a boyfriend. Am I terrible? Has this happen to anyone else?

26M, 6ft. Looking for casual. No bar on age and relationship status.

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

I keep watching Schitt's Creek reruns now and then. It makes me feel warm and mushy, but also super lonely. So tired of being perpetually single. I know it's been posted about here a bunch of times before but it still sucks. Venting and knowing you're not alone, helps a tiny bit. =) Also does anybody else thing Patrick is essentially just a 'too good to be true' fantasy boyfriend Dan Levy dreamed up and put on the show?

So… are any NJ/NYC people planning a meet up?! 👀

If you’re in a relationship (even a happy one), is flirting fine or walking a line? I think consistently flirting with the same person can be shaky, but what about strangers if you’re out?

List of info people are interested in:
Age, sex, location, ethnicity, religion, height, insta handle (if shameless plug), one fun fact about yourself, what you’re looking for

A lot of people in public end up in relationships together, why not jumpstart the process? Post your sex, age, interests, and city. PM each other if interested.

These dating apps. ARGH! Someone “likes” you (takes the time to do that) then never messages you back. I don’t understand.

SO I have been dating for couple months doesn’t have friends and wants to hang out all the time, is this a red flag?

Grinder is so much more convenient for hookups. Anything similar for straight men?

31 F based in Chicago. Does anyone want to talk?

Deleted the dating apps again. Wonder how long I’ll last this time. 🤔

Anyone like Sexting?? I am married man but I enjoyed that...

I got an offer from IBM for the role of Business Manager with 25.7L Fixed Salary. I am from SAP Functional Stream. Hike of around 40%.
Q What is the role of Business Manager?
Q Is this a good Package?
Q Is there no Statutory Bonus in IBM?
Q What is the minimum Variable pay GDP+PA we can expect? Any specific % from basic/ Gross?

Looking for an apartment in Denver! What are some good real estate companies to rent from?

Anyone watched V on prime? Very disappointed with such a standard revenge story and untimely songs etc. Not what I was expecting from Nani's most hyped movie this year

Hi Fishes,

Need some suggestions. I gave interview on Tuesday, will it be right to ask feedback tomorrow or should I wait till the end of week and then ask for feedback on Monday Morning. Today, I didn't got any response from them.

Apparently some journals can prevent sci-hub from sharing their content now.

Do you know of a sci-hub alternative for free journal articles?

Hello,

If someone decide to resign within probation period itself. what will be notice period and if reason is salary, will Amdocs revise the package?

Hello All,

I am having over 9 years of experience as oracle application database administrator and currently pursuing my masters at university of Windsor Canada.

I am looking for co-op and full term opportunities. Please let me know if you have any recommendations.

Thanks,
Shruthi

Hi Fishes.! I'm actively looking for an opportunity in Testing. Having 5 yop in the Industry. Looking forward for any referrals.

API Testing
Mobile Application Testing
Performance Testing

How does one share a Delta drink voucher? Can you just take a screenshot?

What's it like to work at Deloitte, BCG, or McK in their agile transformation space/offering/practice?

“I feel like I’m the stupidest person here”
“You are not stupid. You literally work at one of the top consulting firms in the world”
“I literally got a 6% in one exam during undergrad”
“Well damn I guess you are stupid”

Any advice for a CD team who wants to move to pharma? We’ve freelanced in the space, but don’t have work in our books. Currently we’re running a large CPG brand, FT at a network agency in NYC.

Anyone joined tcs as VMware admin recently?I have been receiving calls for different projects in tcs but most of them requires me to work in shift..Any suggestions please and is it okay if I keep rejecting unless I get the right project...

Hello, Please refer me for any open positions for a tableau developer role. Having overall and relevant experience of 7 years 3 months

Thoughts on Klick??? Very intrigued

What’s a good salary range to ask for as a Junior AD in LA with about 1 year agency experience? Previous agency I made just over 60k and now looking for new gig.

Wanting some good PD on building behavior plans, Check in Check out, and giving students feedback?

Can Grindr be used as a dating app?

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

I’m considering going to grad school in Dublin or Sydney. Can anyone tell me what gay life is like in either of those cities?

I keep watching Schitt's Creek reruns now and then. It makes me feel warm and mushy, but also super lonely. So tired of being perpetually single. I know it's been posted about here a bunch of times before but it still sucks. Venting and knowing you're not alone, helps a tiny bit. =) Also does anybody else thing Patrick is essentially just a 'too good to be true' fantasy boyfriend Dan Levy dreamed up and put on the show?

Only recently started being out/comfortable being bi, but overcoming a lot of self stigma. Others seem so secure in the LGBT world already, it leaves me terrified how/where to begin. Help?

Facebook: we know everything about you and do hyper-targeted ads based on a comment you made in a post or message once
Also Facebook: DONATE BLOOD NOW (even as an out gay man who opted out of these)

Almost midnight here and I'm cleaning my medicine cabinet so I can reboot having a regular skin-care routine. I'm listening to one of my favorite musicals, "Ragtime", specifically the song "He Wanted to Say". Living 9 time zones away from home out of the US and watching the BLM movement there, unable to do anything concrete about it from here - this song I've listened to countless times, today about brought me to tears.

I really don’t mean this to virtue signal - just wanted to share a moment.

Anyone up ? 😉

Doctor rec’s? I was in DC before and I used to go to Whitman Walker, an LGBT focused primary care clinic, clean, efficient and friendly, and they understood the LGBT needs, like PrEP, very well, which is mainly what I need from my PCP. Is there such a thing in NYC?

I know I will get hated by saying this. Do you think gay pride events are portraying a bad image about our community to public? (Drugs, sexual, inappropriate clothes, and sometimes like strip clubs- some parts). I know it is right to present us but I just feel it is not the right way to show who we are. I wish the pride where everybody can connect in a more friendly way (outdoor game- team work, dance, drink something not too sexual.) there are some good parts of pride tho. Any opinions?

I feel like I’ve lost myself since joining McK. My whole world has become about work. I love my job but I’m not the same person I started and I feel I don’t connect with my friends and family the way I use to. I’m not sure if I’ve grown, or lost a part of myself. Is this growing up or do I need to make a career change?

I am in a long distance relationship with someone who is currently in B school. He spends pretty much all his breaks and holidays traveling with his classmates. Most of the time I am fine. But for some important holidays and my birthday, I told him we should spend time together. He just said it’s more important for him to bond with his classmates and ignore my ask. It’s really disappointing and I don’t know what else to tell him. Is that a reasonable ask or am I being dramatic?

Any 🐠 attending the Pilgrimage Festival in Nashville this weekend?

Shooters shoot boys. 29 here.

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(

I grew up in a nuclear family away from extended relatives who were never really close. Parents were either emotionally unavailable or distant. All I've wanted for myself was a big loving family to call my own.. my parents are unaccepting of my sexuality & my partners family is also quite fucked up so she's isn't super close to them either. Honestly this sucks & it feels like I'll never have a huge supportive family I've wanted & craved for.

Thoughts on Ru last night? *SPOILER WARNING. DON’T READ IF YOU HAVEN’T WATCHED YET*

Do you find that what you find attractive physically has dramatically changed over the years? Everything from body type to facial features I swoon over is so totally different

Solo trip to Puerto Rico. Any recs? Thanks fam.

Ryan Murphy is the new Aaron Spelling. Big rich producer making money off of cheesy shlock. I guess you can’t take the Indiana out of the boy. Heart’s in the right place though. Bless his heart.