If you had a choice, would you live in Chicago or NYC?

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Who hurt you? Lots of anger there buddy.

I picked Chicago. Still happy about it 9 years later. I'd be so much poorer if I had chosen NYC and I'd have had to live in even smaller apartments than I did.

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In 2019 or 2022?

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How much of your paycheck do you want to lose to rent? Chicago is far more economical in that regard.

NYC > Chicago weather-wise.

COVID-wise, NYC has a much longer ramp to recovery than Chicago IMO. I am biased though because I live in NYC and know it well pre-2020, even though I visit Chicago regularly.

What is your salary in respective cities? What part of life are you trying to optimize?

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205 pre tax and you can live like a king in Chicago. If you want an apartment near work, you can do that. More room in one of the neighborhoods? Also yes. IMO the only thing NY has on Chicago is better / more varied Korean, Japanese, and Chinese food. You can find excellent Asian food in Chicago just not as common. All other food is just as good if not better and certainly more affordable in Chicago.

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NYC, better looking women

Went with NYC when I chose between the two

I mean I have three kids so can I pick suburban Chicago. Chi town is definitely more affordable.

Nyc - probably a bit better on weather and great bars

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