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I think it starts with confidence. If you’re missing signs, then that means people are attracted to you.
Just don’t overthink it, if someone’s checking you out and/or it looks like they’re into you, they probably are.
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You don't need to approach men. Men want to be the pursuers. Put yourself in a position to be approached. Go to a spot or location where you want to find a man, dress up, and be by yourself. Many guys nowadays find it tougher to approach groups of women because of various current societal norms. Other than that, be open to conversations with guys you are interested in. Drop hints that you're “free” or “not doing much” if a guy is asking if you have plans over the weekend, etc. That gives men an opening. Also, when a guy gets your number, and text/call/facetime, be responsive to indicate your interest.
You are a 25 year old woman, this is the easiest it's ever going to be: If a guy is talking to you or looking at you, he is interested.
Literally just go to amy bar or other social setting, and smile at some guys.
You should absolutely approach a guy of you like him.
You'll be fine. I had and still have the same issue. Ask yourself this:
Is this just in dating, or do you miss queues in general?
Do you feel "safe" in those social situations. Not in regards to the people approaching you but id the environment the right for you? For example, flirting at a bar may not be your thing, maybe you prefer something more organic like rock climbing or some other activity.
Lean on your friends to help you identify those queues. Some of us have to learn these things.
I had my first bf at 27. I would realize someone was flirting with me sometimes 2 years after it happens 🤣
It was more organic and while traveling.
Approach or be approachable… be open and friendly, you’ll have them lining up out the door. 🤷♂️
saw ur pic and was super interested I know I'm super late but if are still single lmk!