I’m finally up for promotion and suddenly everyone’s acting like it’s a privilege just to be considered. Somehow the opportunity comes with more work, more pressure, and ,of course, the same pay for now. I’m excited, but I’m also annoyed that advancement feels like a favor I’m supposed to be grateful for instead of something I earned by hitting every target. I want clarity, but I don’t want to look entitled. How do you ask for real expectations without sounding ungrateful?

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This isn't the question you asked, but as someone who went through something similar:

Think about what exactly about the whole thing upsets you. Is it that partnership doesn't seem as great now as it did when you were younger? Is it that you're getting the feeling that your years of hard work aren't being appreciated? Are you just getting tired of the politicking? All of the above or something else entirely? Figure out what's underlying the resentment (even if it's mild resentment). This might be your subconscious way of saying you don't want this promotion as much as you thought-- at all, or at this firm.

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Do you have a sponsoring partner you’re close with? Suggest setting a meeting with them to ask questions about the promotion process

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In what way are people acting like it’s a privilege?

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