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Hey guys! So I have a Top Secret Clearance and recently joined Amazon in a position that doesn’t require it. Would Amazon offer to host my clearance considering that they are looking for multiple people with this type of clearance? I’m open to cleared work but was hired for a commercial Strategy and just not sure if I should bring it up? Thought?
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I don't think you're weird. I know some introverts that are like you.
I’m like you too but you’ve got to get past it. You don’t have to be out every week but even every few months is nice. You never know what may happen
My other advice is if you don’t start doing that no matter how good you are at your job you will end up getting pushed out eventually when things economically cool down. That happened to me. But I was sure to make friendships so that made it harder to fire me because I was so well liked.
No. But speaking as one introvert to another, you need to get over it and learn to socialize if you want to get ahead or even just exist in this profession. Learn some techniques for making small talk and force yourself to participate in these networking events. Eventually you will become comfortable enough to fake it sufficiently well.
Am an introvert who also hates it but will go to firm sponsored social events because my love for free food and drinks outweighs my hatred for small talk 😂
Free food for the win! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Also leave early after making sure you've been seen.
How do you ever get to know anyone new? I’m not a huge extrovert but this seems quite extreme.
I try not to mingle with people form the office… don’t play where you work, shit where you eat…
If your goal is partnership, this seems to be necessary
Fake it til you make it. Need to be uncomfortable sometimes
The extroverts will find you, especially if you do good work. I was perceived as quiet and not confident when I was more junior. Now, when I speak people listen, because if I’m bothering to speak, it’s important.
Who do you think does appellate work?
Not weird. Those drinks are always small talk. I’d rather die.
Most of us hate that. We do it because it’s expected of us. Not weird for feeling that way but weird if you refuse to go.
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I love people, but don’t really like socializing with lawyers but it’s the job. Find a few safe/funny topics you can discuss with people and have those same conversations regularly. “I heard you like X” “tell me about your pet/child/hobby”, talk about your hobby.