Is it weird that our director always calls the team members (both guys and girls) by their last names? We don’t have many people who share the same first names so he definitely doesn’t do it to avoid confusion.

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If it bothers you you should say something. I don't think its like power move type thing. They probably just came from an environment where everyone did that i.e. sports or military

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I am not sure he means it in a nice way though. One colleague told me one time she asked him if she could work from home because she wasn’t feeling well. He asked her if she’s really sick or just faking it. And he yells at me in public multiple times:(

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You all are adults, why doesn’t someone just pause and say “My name is____, and that is what I expect to be called.”

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I don’t find it weird or offensive at all. If anything, I feel it indicates a level if comfortability. I came from a sports background (D1) though so to me it’s perfectly natural in certain environments.

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Yeah that’s weird as hell. We aren’t on a high school sports team

Does your director use prefix? Miss Smith, Mr. Smith, etc.? If he does, that’s respect. If he doesn’t, it IS RUDE.

My managers would go by their last names from time to time and we would use partners last names during meetings so I don’t find it offensive. Depends on the context.

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