It is crazy how many people don't put enough thought or effort into their dating profile. I see dozens of profiles a day with grainy, clearly outdated or weird and offputting photos...

People truly do not understand the assignment. The point is to attract a partner and while everyone has different preferences, there's been research on what works to attract other humans on apps that's pretty universal! Showing some understanding of social dynamics also speaks to one's EQ.

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It's because only one side has to put in effort.

They have really low quality or inconsistent photos, are behaving anti-socially in photos, have photos that tend to be off-putting or have responses to prompts that tend to be off putting to women.

Even though we're all dynamic with flaws, opening with things that are off putting or not appropriate for what is essentially a dating personal ad shows a lack of social awareness that's going to cause people with lots of options to chose one of the other options. It's just strange to me that so many people don't seem to try to think about or put out aspects of themselves that would attract people on an app that's designed for that.

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