I’ve been working at a new company in a trailer. I’m in my late 20’s and have lost a good amount of friends. I’ve developed insomnia. I barely get social interaction at work and in my personal life. I have a boyfriend and 1 friend I can speak to regularly. I just met her about a year ago. Not sure if this will last. Does the profession make anyone else lonely? Or is it just me?

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i mean if you look on the bright side you have 1 friend you speak to regularly AND a boyfriend that is a lot more interaction then some people in this world get to view it more optimistically. perhaps you’re unhappy in your job? and if you want to gain more friends in your personal life perhaps try doing an activity you like, or volunteer, do a meetup group, etc

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Would recommend looking into marketing operations roles. That could be the crossover opportunity that suits your experience and passion.

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IMO I feel it’s not so much the profession but rather it’s that making friends as an adult requires intention.

There are places outside of work and home where you can socialize and make friends. Look for places that attract regulars with similar interests/hobbies to you. Some examples off of the top of my head are meetup events, church, bars (hit or miss), classes, etc.

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Find a hobby and get involved in the community. Like pickle ball, golf, cars, dancing, karaoke, 5ks, marathons, dogs, etc. don’t be afraid to meet new people and make more friends

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Get your CPA and get out of that trailer!

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Why are you working in a trailer?

They don’t have an actual office. I’m working for an entity that just stated branching off (like a startup) from an established small company. The trailer I work in is more like a mobile office trailer.

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