Long shot. I’m turning 30, F, and I live in Johannesburg South Africa. I don’t mind a long distance thing for a few months, until one of us decides to move if it gets serious. I have a 5 year old son, and I want more kids 😁. Im a ghostwriter and work remotely.
I don’t think you’d regret it, but that’s just my opinion😅

Started as product manager in a start-up with a too nice culture- it's all groupthink and the product direction is suffering. Need to get people to be assertive without being an asshole- need advice

Hi Fishes,

I just received an offer from CTS -16.45LPA
16 - Fixed & 45k variable component with 1Lakh joining bonus. I'm having 5.8 YOE working as Senior ACon with current CTC - 11lpa
I have cleared 2nd round(managerial) with TCS direct project recruitment and waiting for salary negotiation. I'm confused whether to join TCS now itself (which might be too soon to settle down) or go for CTS for next 2 years. Please suggest me. My priorities are Steady growth, Work life balance, Job security.

For those of you who had miscarriages after IVF, was there an underlying cause? Did you do genetic testing of your embryos? Did you do frozen or fresh transfer? Are there any ways to minimise chances of miscarriage during ivf?

How is ZoomInfo as a company? How is the work culture? What is the salary growth?

Is Google a safe in house department to go in to considering state of the economy? For background, third year in big law (corporate).

I’m about to switch jobs to my company’s main competitor and move to a new city and I’m so anxious and worried I’m making the wrong choice, anyone else ever get cold feet after signing an offer?

What’s the general guidance on the order to maximize retirement contributions for tax benefits for an normal individual and for a self employed/small business owner before moving to taxable accounts or alternate vehicles like cash value life policies?
I’ve seen for individual: match trad 401k->match roth 401k->max roth IRA->max trad IRA->max trad 401k->max roth 401k->max HSA
For self employed: max SEP IRA/solo 401k->max roth IRA->max trad IRA->max HSA

Of course situations differ but in general?

What’s the base for CL8 (CDO)? Glassdoor doesn’t seem accurate, as it pegs CL8 at 56k. Currently a CL9, on 52.5 in London. Promoted from CL10 last year too, so still a fairly new CL9.

First time participating in ESPP this last period. I received a heads up email that Morgan Stanley will get in touch to open a broker account, but not heard from MS themselves. Anyone in a similar situation?

Happy New Year everyone. Celebrating 5779 with a new bowl

This week in homebuying horror stories: offered $60k (10%) over asking on a house. Got beat by a last minute all-cash offer from an out of state buyer who was buying sight-unseen.

This is the worst.

Quarantine has really made me think about life. If I can’t scuba, then what’s this all been about? What have I been working toward?

Why does PWC Kolkata SDC pay so low?
Only 16lpa fixed (senior associate 1), is it worth joining?

What part of supply chain management is your favorite? I am partial to procurement, but I know some people prefer to work in warehouses.

36F in Houston, Tx. New to the area and looking for friends.

Any houston folks here?

Any of Dfw female fishes interested in spending time over drinks/ dinner chat abot life, fun friendly conversation, may we watch a movie together. ? Brown Male 36 .

Anyone ready for NYC gathering?

Real talk ... if someone is over 35 and hasn’t been married before, do you automatically assume there is something wrong with them?

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

Men in your 30s and 40s - what is the number one quality you're looking for in a woman? I like to think I'm compassionate, intelligent and independent (as much as any other woman), but I'm still struggling to find dates. I would say I'm attractive, and I take care of myself pretty well. What am I doing wrong?

Are text message breakups acceptable? Better than complete ghosting right

I guess I'll try my luck out... Isn't the ideal thing to have the passion and romance of teenagers, but with the maturity and experience of adults? Hopefully I could find someone here that has that mindset.

Any F in the Bay Area wana have some exciting time?

36 F Black NYC Divorced, 1 tween. anyone want to get to know one another better?

Having serious Monday blues! Who wants to talk and help? 35M in Chicago

I am feeling naughty since morning! Anyone sharing the feeling?

Where them 30+ ladies at? 25M 🙋‍♂️😉

I’m a Pro now, baby!

In my opinion one of the worse things you could hear from someone when you are dating is ‘I usually don’t talk to someone like you’. It makes it seem like you are just settling for that person.