Made an appointment with my therapist to talk through the issues in my relationship. Coronavirus has been rough on us

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That's really great. Corona has also been hard on my relationship and I've been having more and more doubts. But I don't think my bf is ready for therapy or feels like he can afford it.

Did it help?? I have been having doubts lately and I feel like we need therapy. My bf doesn’t think we need it. Clearly he is not on the same page as me. But he is willing to come if I want to do it. Do you think it’s useful?

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