Even after you left the narcissistic ex ten years ago, finalized the divorce six years ago… they still come at you. My child who splits their time between us left his ID at my place… the ex calls the police stating I refuse to return the ID… will it ever stop?

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Your child will see ex for what he is. Karma is a bitch.

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My child does, however there seem to be some type of Stockholm Syndrome going on. I am hoping that with maturity the child will break free and start their own life ❤️

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. My husband’s ex is also a narcissist who does nothing but cause problems — despite getting a ton of money in child support and alimony. My only hope is that the next 9 years until the youngest graduates from high school go by quickly so we can at least move and be further away from her b.s.

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Probably only if he finds a new target.

SM1, you mean go out and party? 😑

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