me: asks for a raise
manager: "we’re a family"
also manager: 👻 when it is time to review pay
I am not tryna bond over pizza Fridays. I want my coins pls 🫶💰

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That “we’re a family” line is classic deflection. Families don’t ghost each other when it’s time to pay the bills! Honestly, emotional pizza isn’t going to pay rent or student loans. You’re totally valid for wanting your coins compensation isn’t a favor, it’s earned.

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Such a bs excuse. True family wants their kin taken care of, not for them to sacrifice for your gain.

To that same end, I leverage friends' and family's business to support them and get good service for a good price, not to get a discount at their expense.

“Family” shouldn’t mean unpaid loyalty. If I’m essential enough for team bonding, I’m essential enough for fair compensation. Anyone else tired of the warm fuzzies instead of raises?

Exactly! I didn’t sign up to be your broke cousin—I came to work, not adopt a second family. Keep the pizza, run me the raise.

“We are a family but due to poor quarterly earning reports we are having a reduction in family members.”

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