My first world problem this summer is that my extended family keeps pushing my family to visit with the incentive that their Airbnb, hotel, hoa, community, etc have pools on site. Great - but I literally have my own in-ground pool. I control it's temperature, I don't have to share it with neighbors, I walk outside and there it is.

Please validate my suffering, it is clearly well justified

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Why don’t they visit you and your pool?

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That's my question too!

Step back, ignoring the pool thing, do you want to visit your extended family, yes or no?

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Some yes, some no

They know you love your pool and are trying to encourage a visit with similar amenities.. they just want you to visit, my friend. Sounds like they care about you.

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That doesn’t go against what I said though? You have a pool, that you clearly enjoy. As a stranger on the internet who knows literally nothing about you, I could feel semi confident in guessing that you’re a person who enjoys their pool based on the 2-3 sentences above. So, if someone is enticing you to visit and using the fact that the Airbnb/hotel/hoa has a pool as a selling point…. It’s because they are trying to relate to something you have and love and want you to want to visit. I truly do not see the issue here.

Secondly, your OP mentioned Airbnb/hotel/hoa/etc but now you’re saying it’s local visits? Feels like you’re just trying to make a specific point and are willing to emphasize certain details to support…

Ask them the size and specs of their pool (slides , diving allowed etc etc) for a proper analysis. You are steering blind towards a disaster now friend.

And I thought I’m the only one who doesn’t like meeting extended family..appreciate being validated

I can’t even afford a vacation lol good first world problem to have

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