Not a dad yet but figured there’s good advice in here. Wife just told me she’s pregnant, about 4-6 weeks in. Excited but not too much yet because I know a lot can happen early on. My immediate concern

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Congratulations, no need to make excuses, just pass on alcohol.

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is finding best practices on hiding this from people when alcohol is present until we’re ready to go public.

We have a dinner party tonight with some friends and a concert with other friends tomorrow! We’re not usually this social so it won’t be too hard going forward, just want to get through this weekend. Thanks!

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Congrats OP! I second D1. My wife use to say that all the time. Other than that we avoided those gatherings till about 12 weeks. Have fun!

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Pull out next time

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Congrats! No need for excuses; it’s none of their business as to why you’re not drinking!

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Well we got through the weekend just fine. No more social activities for a while so we should be ok. Thanks all!

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