On 1st time Tinder/Bumble dates, do you take her to dinner or just coffee?

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Neither. First date is drinks only

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There is no codified rule. Usually offer several choices.

I've done brunch, coffee, and drinks. Coffee is usually reserved for 2nd tier. Drinks and brunch are for 1st tier.

2nd date is for dinner, something fun, and smashing.

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Drinks only

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Also, if you go for drinks that can always lead to dinner activities etc

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Dinner is for chumps. Drinks / coffee / something quick so you can make a go no go decision.

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