Serious question: if you are interested in someone but they want to wait till marriage before you know... Would you end it or wait with them?

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End it. Sexual compatibility is important for me.

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Couldn’t agree more. I don’t want the honey to turn out to be adulterated or artificial if What I really crave for is the organic honey.

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I’d wait. Provided we’ve hit all the other bases and the chemistry is there.

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Chemistry is a lot of intangibles but I would assume sexual desire is a part of it. If that is unfulfilled, what’s the point? For course, assuming that one believes marriage is a life long commitment.

Why is this person waiting until marriage? Is it because s/he is very religious? Are you not as religious then? Are your lifestyles and beliefs otherwise incompatible? Like do they go to church every week, and you don’t want to? Will they want to raise kids to be religious and you don’t want to? Etc etc I’m just pointing out that you might be overlooking other major issues.

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^ this. Your values are probably different

My advice is between BA1 and Attorney1: sexual compatibility is important, but getting this far probably wouldn’t have happened without some serious chemistry. I’m the end, it’s all about the connection and chemistry. You have to weigh the pros and cons and do what’s best for you.

Personally I’m closer to BA1 for myself.

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IMO, it’s important to explore the sexual desires and keep it healthy and fun and mystery to unveil over the period of time. That makes the relation even stronger. Some might get turned off if they find out one of them is not as excited/interested in that domain even if you match perfectly in the real world with your ideas.

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I would have to end it. I was in a relationship for almost a year and we never slept together because he had technical difficulties (ended up being a medical problem but we are in our late 20s so this was really unexpected). The relationship was great otherwise but that aspect took a serious toll and honestly waiting was terrible.

That experience confirmed how important sex and sexual compatibility is to me in a relationship and there’s no way I’d risk ending up with someone I have zero sexual compatibility with.

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I mean, how far are they willing to go b4 marriage?

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