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Not me. Going in the office is inferior in every way, adding misery and stress, especially when busy, and having no point even when not. Nobody ever did, or does now, allow you to draw some kind of boundary when “home” as opposed to being in the office, other than people seeming to give more lip service now to being sorry when asking for something on the weekend than they were 5-10 years ago, and that owes more to general efforts to make things somewhat more humane than they used to be than anything about going into an office.
You would have to back to something like the mid-90s, before ubiquitous mobile devices that could get and respond to email, and decent internet access, or have anyone care in biglaw, at least, whether someone was at home as opposed to the office. And back then, everyone was just in the office all the time. I mean almost literally, including a lot of weekends. The current situation is much better than how it used to be with decent remote working tech, messaging tools like Slack and Teams, etc. Yes, it never stops, but it never has in the past three decades, either. Adding a stressful and miserable commute with more emails and calls coming in wouldn’t help with that. You would just have partners grumbling about why you weren’t in the office.
I sometimes struggle with it. I will always prefer family over everything, but that can also make it harder on them when I’m so close but have to work late or miss a dinner for a random call that comes up. Weird to say, but it’s harder for them to understand why I’m shut away down the hall. It’s also harder for me to “shut off.”
Building habits, setting rules, and developing happy rituals seems to help. At the end of the day, I am more productive not having to make small talk, saving a ton of money not commuting, and get to better allocate my time. It’s just a very weird transition even a few years in.