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And also, this: You'll never realize how much free time you had until you have kids.

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That cuts a little too close

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Love this thread. I know a few friends and family who could learn from these tips.

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I’ve sent this to a few of my friends. A lot of stuff to consider. We are all figuring it out but threads like this make me less anxious about the things that are going on in my life right now

Still only on #1 who is 3 years old but consistent with my experience so far!

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Agree with it all except the bit about getting down less. TMI maybe, but my sex life has improved substantially since having kids 😂

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Hahah not mad at that at all!! Release the stress!

This: Look, you'll never be financially ready for kids

You figure shit out.

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Legit though. In our culture, we believe that when kids are born, they bring good luck or money (fortune). It always seems to work out. Life works in mysterious ways

Great thread.

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