Dating an Olympic athlete and she’s fit, good looking, smart, has fun personality and quite popular.

Things between us are going really well but somehow I can’t help but feel that she’s way out of my league and having kind of an imposter syndrome. How do I brush this feeling aside and not spoil things?

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Remind yourself you’re an Olympic consultant working at BCG. You can’t have it all, just avoid the partner beer belly!

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Exactly what I needed to hear 💜💜

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Oh boy

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She is with you for a reason. My wife is also way hotter than me but for some reason thinks I am really good looking. Women can have a funny taste

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Touche

I believe in you

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She likes that pole vault 🤷🏻‍♂️ don’t question a good thing.

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I mean she probably is out of your league. Let that remind you not to take her or your relationship for granted.

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Don’t listen to this advice. You shouldn’t take anyone for granted but if you put her on an unrealistic pedestal then you’ll act like a weirdo and do simp things, which is a turnoff for most people. Just be normal and appreciate your person who appreciates you

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Olympic athlete career is not that long mate :)

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You are in her league or you wouldn’t have gotten through her screen for dating.

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This!

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Seek comfort in the opinion she has of you rather than the unreliable opinion you have of yourself.

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As long as she’s not out lifting you….

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She probably is lol

At the end of the day, they’re still a person just like the rest of us. And being an athlete is their job.

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You've got some good advice here, but does anyone else get a kick out of reading these comments and trying to decide if a man or woman left this advice? Kind of love that this app is so gender neutral and anonymous.

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Summer Olympics or Winter Olympics?
Also - Regular or Special Olympics?

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Her earning prospects are limited, that’s why she’s latched onto you!
In all seriousness, that’s awesome. You’re both competitive and accomplished - but you don’t have to compete against her or try to outshine her accomplishments (and vice versa for her). If she’s dating another runner and he medals at Nationals while she brings in a 4th place - imagine that stress. She has none of that with you.

Let her decide if you’re in her league. Also, remember that girls love some level-headed confidence. If she suspects you don’t think you’re good enough for her, she’ll start to believe you.

Catch up. Go to the gym
Just be worried when she goes to the Olympic village where they pick up a ton of condoms after the event

Bro, Don’t predetermined your own fate. If u act she is too good for you, she will eventually get the clue. Just be yourself and trust she likes you for that. Stick with the basics.

Which sport?

She’s an Olympian and she picked you. I think that’s enough to pump your ego.

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