I need advice. I met an amazing guy on a dating app. We talked for 4 months and most of the convo was sexual. I fell so hard for him and it was because when we met up in person he was so kind, caring, and respectful towards me. He never initiated conversation with me first, but if I messaged him, he would respond back immediately. Then after 4 months he ghosted me on the app we were talking on. I texted him and he told me he had a gf. I am completely heartbroken. What kind of behavior was this?

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I’ll elaborate a bit more about him. He had a very successful career, he was very clean, tall, good looking, beautiful apartment. When we hung out, why did he have to go overboard and like get dinner and wine and hang out and do all that for me. If he wanted sex he could’ve left it at that and didn’t have to do more

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I honestly don’t know, but I would date you and not ghost you or hookup with someone else if I was with you

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