So tired of people trying to make me be who they think I should be. Me being quiet doesn't affect my work performance so just leave me alone. Then again, maybe you should try being quiet yourself.

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Just venting

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Nothing worse than working in a team room with those who cannot bear silence for any amount of time.

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