34 and noticing that all my friends are friends of convenience - ppl from work, friends of friends, or ppl I’ve met randomly. How do I cultivate more deliberate friendships based on shared interests?

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Commit time to what you enjoy on the weekend. That’s where you’ll meet people with shared interests. Carve out that time and hold it as sacred. You’ll be glad you did. Good luck

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It can be difficult to set and honor our own time. Before getting to the how, understand your priorities and needs. Put in thought on the front end and understand what you want your friendships, relationships, etc. to look like. Really *see* what you are doing with your friends, where you go, etc. then work from there. Don't hemorrhage time, letting it leak from your life by spending it with people you have not intentionally invited in. It's better to spend that time alone in awesome solitude developing a talent or upskilling.

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